I am a guy 21. I’ve never masturbated in my life yet. Is that a thing to worry about? I have been trying to but I don’t think I get aroused that much. Nothing works it for me. I don’t find any good in porn. I think I just give up in the process. Please […]
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While I understand the gesture of, ‘Hey, suicidal people, reach out; we’re always listening!’ It’s often not that simple. Depression, by its very nature, makes you not want to talk to people. So you shun company and the void widens. But then, at some point, you’ll reach an epiphany: It’s bad. You need help. Now. […]
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A few years back I posted an anonymous submission after meeting a younger man on line who I eventually met for real and wrote about where our relationship was at that stage and where it initially went. Our age gap is 22 years. We’re best friends. After about two years he felt that we were […]
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Last week my mother called. She quietly asked if I was able to speak, which meant was my husband nearby to hear her. He wasn’t so she proceeded to tell me. That day when she opened the mail box, inside was a letter from my ex. Here’s some background information: I haven’t been with my […]
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The first time I had sex I was being raped by my boyfriend. I was 15, he was 14. I had been in a coercive controlling relationship with him for 10 months. It was on the floor of his parents dining room. I went completely still. I froze. I showered 7 times that day and […]
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Can I ask you all a question? I am a Dom and I met a submissive recently. She was nervous, so I took it slow and made sure everything I did was OK with her. After a couple hours, she made up some excuse and said she had to be up early the next day […]
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I want to reassure anyone reading this that I am fine, now. But for a while, I was very much not fine. Not fine at all. I’m uncertain whether I should be doing something about that or not. I met a man last year who became my Master. I was his slave. I am poly. […]
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Dear sub person, The interactions between a Dom and a sub can be complex and complicated things. Yes, I know that you want me to just take what I want and that will make you happy. But is it really as simple as that? You seem to be forgetting that it might be the case […]
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I know that my submission means I can’t, or won’t, ask for what I need. The key to that submission is you taking what you need, without that I am nothing. When I am pushed away, rejected and ignored. When you are doing it because it’s what I want, it becomes meaningless. Without you doing […]
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What about love? It isn’t real. There is no love. It is just a lie to excuse our behaviour. I know because I have learned that everyone is a selfish cunt. They claim that they love you when all they do is hurt and betray you for their own ends. Your spouse doesn’t love you, […]
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