Is it too much to ask….

Is it too much to ask a man to actually discuss a problem within a relationship without him thinking you are criticising him? I love him to pieces and he me, but when it comes to discussing the finer details of a problem it’s like I’ve killed his mother or something!!!  

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It’s only a mind fuck…

When you have a crush on someone but you’re married and you can’t tell a soul. But I wouldn’t leave him, not my husband… I love him. …. and now I can see how people can love more than one person at the same time. Oh but its messy and makes me feel both glorious […]

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An Open Letter to Myself

Dear ______, You can look at this in two ways. 1) Okay, so your rapidly changing mood fucking terrifies me. You can be ecstatic, enthused, excited, over-joyed one minute, and on the brink of tears the next. I googled the symptoms of Bipolar disorder and sobbed. What if you are? What does that mean for […]

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Janice’s Eyes: Part 1

‘I have found someone for you’. ‘Really?’ Louisa’s beautiful fawn-brown eyes widened in mock erotic interest. We play this game on occasion. When the love of your life is bi-sexual, any help you can give her to find a woman to have sex with feels more like doing a favor like washing the dishes for […]

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*sigh*

It is very difficult, sometimes, to be a non-monogamous woman in a wonderful, but monogamous relationship…. such a deliciously naughty conversation I’ve had today. I want more. More of the conversation, more of the possibility and I know, when the time comes… I’m going to want more of him.

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Eroticon 2013

I am so hugely excited! I have just bought my Eroticon 2013 tickets…. The only problem is I havent told my husband yet. Although this might not seem like a problem he did not allow me to attend this year’ Eroticon after he found out what it was, more like that all my sexiest twitter […]

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Tasked

A message came today filled with instructions. Him: Today, you are to complete all of the following: 1. Take a long, relaxing bath. Edge 3 times while in the hot, scented water. Remember what you think about when you do. I want to know. 2. After drying off, use your silver bullet to bring yourself […]

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I Met a Girl

I wasn’t expecting to meet her. Circumstances converged and by an unexpected turn of events, we ended up at the same place at the same time. She was tiny, sometimes quiet, very pretty, smart, quick-witted, and game for an adventure. We met again in different guises–no longer party primped, just two girls meeting after work […]

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Love and Sunlight…

Have you ever tried to tie sunlight up in a ball of barbed wire and kept it close to you always, cradling it like your own precious child; never letting it free? My guess is, probably not. Not only would the experience be painful for you – and probably unfavorable to the sunlight – but […]

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Small Secret

I don’t consider myself a sex blogger. I talk about sex and I certainly play sexually on twitter, but I am far from what I would consider a sex blogger. That said, I do write the occasional piece of erotica or about a certain aspect of sex which I find interesting. It’s more a hobby […]

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I am a patriot to the human race…

I rant every now and then about the big issues. The ones that bother me. The ones that really push me over, and make me want to do violent, unthinkable things to people. But every once in a while, I just want to rant without divulging my identity. To lay all the cards on the […]

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