Unbound

I think it is time to call this done and dusted. We have lost what it was that made us D/s. I am not saying that it is your fault, I am sure I share as much of the blame as you. But it isn’t working anymore. You find my dominance onerous and chafing, while […]

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Should I contact her again?

Can I ask you all a question? I am a Dom and I met a submissive recently. She was nervous, so I took it slow and made sure everything I did was OK with her. After a couple hours, she made up some excuse and said she had to be up early the next day […]

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Dear sub person

Dear sub person, The interactions between a Dom and a sub can be complex and complicated things. Yes, I know that you want me to just take what I want and that will make you happy. But is it really as simple as that? You seem to be forgetting that it might be the case […]

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I am nothing

I know that my submission means I can’t, or won’t, ask for what I need. The key to that submission is you taking what you need, without that I am nothing. When I am pushed away, rejected and ignored. When you are doing it because it’s what I want, it becomes meaningless. Without you doing […]

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