Collar

10th May 2012 It is a symbol of the Dom/sub lifestyle that is so intrinsic but outsiders often react quite strongly to it.  I have found that each sub has their own reaction to their collar but there are common themes, this is my perspective. When my Sir puts my collar on, there is sense […]

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Free

I am a successful woman. I am a manager with a national company and my career is ascending skywards.  I am in control and in charge.  I thrive on high pressure situations and also have children and a husband whom I love and cherish. I can (and until very recently) do manage and balance my […]

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The Other Woman

6th February 2012 He calls us fuck buddies, maybe that’s his way of rationalising this but we are a long way from that. Fuck buddies have no or very little emotional involvement with each other only calling to satisfy an urge. We, however, talk every day, many times a day, emails and the ever increasing […]

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I admit it is me

29th January 2012 I need to write this. I’ve held it in now for 12 months but it’s slowly killing me. I have mild depression, admitting it is hard as I have other health issues. I write this now wondering if it’s the right thing to do. I have a loving partner, a loving family […]

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The Bloke Diaries

28th January 2012 How do you break off from something that can, at the same time, destroy you and build you up? I still don’t know what to do with the Bloke. He’s in and out and in again, and I can’t really face up to him anymore. Perhaps I’m making more of this than […]

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Welcome to Anonymous

Welcome to Anonymous. I have created this space for you to share your anonymous words. In recent weeks I have been contacted by quite a few different people asking me to publish anonymous pieces on my blog for them and so I got to wondering if maybe creating a space just for peoples anonymous words […]

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